In Loving Memory of Amber Jerline DeBoer
November 24, 1991 – July 4, 2025

With heavy hearts and reverent silence, we mark the passing of Amber DeBoer—beloved mother, devoted wife, and fierce spirit—who journeyed peacefully into the next realm on  Friday, July 4, 2025.

Amber was a strong woman, who poured love into everyone around her. Her laughter could warm the coldest night and whose presence was as grounding as the earth beneath our feet. Her heart beat in time with the turning of the seasons, and she gave her love as freely as the sun gives light. As a mother, Amber was a fierce protector and a gentle guide. Her girls were her world, and she poured into them her wisdom, kindness, and unshakable love. As a partner, she was steady and soulful—a true companion whose loyalty never wavered and whose affection ran deep.
Amber's life was a circle of giving and growth. She sowed seeds of compassion, nurtured joy in those around her, and always stood firm in her truth. She was a woman who lit candles on solstice nights, who spoke to the stars, and who walked through the world with reverence and intention. Her soul, strong and rooted, touched many.

Amber is preceded in death by her maternal grandfather, Gerald Ralph Summerow and father-in-law, Thomas John DeBoer Jr.

Survived by her loving husband, Thomas John DeBoer III; daughters, Rayne Hall, Lillie Hall and bonus daughter Alyssa Bowlin; her mother, Sandra Summerow Bryant and husband Eric Bryant of Lenoir; her sister, Mariah Adams and husband David and her niece Maybreigh of Lenoir; her grandmother Barbara Lackey Summerow of Lenoir; her father, Chris Anderson and wife Melissa Anderson of Hudson; sisters, Krystal Lackey and husband Jacob of Hickory,  Katey Smith and husband Gant of Granite Falls, and Dawn Anderson of Hudson; brother, Bryson Anderson of Hudson; grandparents, Jane and Keith Hall of Hudson, and Ed and Elaine Anderson of Lenoir; sister in her heart, Rebekah O'Berry and partner Lucas Berry; nephew, Bentley Berry; niece, Brayley Berry of Grand Rapids, Michigan; and several aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, friends and bonus daughters

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, July 12, 2025  from 1:00 to 5:00 P.M. at 110 Joyceton Church Rd, Lenoir, NC 28645.
In honor of Amber's spirit and her love for all things natural and mystical, we invite you to come spend time with friends and family, food will be served and music will be played to honor AMBER, if you would like to send flowers or gifts to the family  please send them to (110 Joyceton Church Rd, Lenoir, NC 28645)

May the valkyries welcome you, and lead you through Odin's great battlefield. May they sing your name with love and fury, so that we might hear it rise from the depths of Valhalla, and know you have taken your rightful place at the table of the heavens. For a great Queen has fallen, a warrior, a mother, a friend.